Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Bible Study: The Book of Acts

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But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you; and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth. (Acts 1:8 NIV)


A Spirit-led Expansion of the Church

Carefully researched by the apostle Paul’s traveling companion Luke, the Book of Acts documents the gradual decline of the early Jewish Church and the rise of Gentile Christianity.

The Church’s inception is outlined in the Gospels via the life of Christ, and occurred between 6 B.C. and A.D. 30. The Book of Acts chronicles the “birthday of the Church” on the Day of Pentecost, and its subsequent growth beyond Jerusalem to Samaria between A.D. 30 and A.D. 60. Acts also describes how the Church expanded to include Gentile converts, a startling development that was debated at the Council of Jerusalem (Acts 15).

Kingdom of God is “at Hand”

Scholars hold that the Pentateuch (first five book of Moses) is to the Old Testament what the four Gospels (plus Acts) are to the New Testament. Recall that Jesus lived and preached under the Old Covenant of the Law. Therefore, the central message of his preaching was that the kingdom of God was “at hand.”

With the endowing of the Spirit on the Day of Pentecost following Christ’s ascension, came the inauguration of the long-awaited Messianic kingdom. Occurring in A.D. 30, this dramatic supernatural event gave birth to the Church of Jesus Christ and signaled the arrival the New Covenant of Grace (Gal 4:4-7).

Birthday of the Church

Approximately one-hundred-and-twenty praying Jewish believers received the Holy Spirit on that momentous day. They were immediately united as one corpus and were emboldened for witness (Acts 2:1-4). Many of these Jewish believers remained in Jerusalem, and under the Apostle Peter’s guidance they began to thrive. This new group called “the Way” and was composed of Hebraists of Palestine and Hellenists from the Dispersion.

Stephen Preaches in Jerusalem

The apologetic preaching of a convert named Stephen brought violent persecution from the ruling Jewish priesthood and resulted in his martyrdom. Thus, the leaders of the infant church were compelled to seek other mission fields beyond the city of Jerusalem.

Philip Preaches to Samaria

In A.D. 33, Philip, a Jewish-Christian evangelist with tremendous foresight, was successful in taking the Gospel north to the territory of the Samaritans, an area despised by the Jews. The Samaritans were a population of mixed ancestry composed of Gentiles and Jews from the ancient northern kingdom. Under Philip’s ministry the Samaritans forsook their heathen superstitions, were baptized, and received the Holy Spirit (Acts 8:14-17).

Peter Preaches to Cornelius’ Household

The events that took place at the house of a Gentile but God-fearing Roman centurion named Cornelius in A.D. 45 were equally significant. Summoned to Caesarea after a vision of purified previously unclean animals, Peter preached salvation to Cornelius’ entire household. Immediately believing, the Gentile assembly were filled with the Holy Spirit, and later were baptized in water (Acts 10:44-46).

When they first heard this news, the circumcised Jewish believers were angry that Peter had dined with non-Jews—strictly prohibited by Jewish Law. However, the Jewish Christians later welcomed Cornelius’ Gentile household into the fellowship, for they agreed that God had granted “even Gentiles repentance unto eternal life” (Acts 11:18 NIV).

Paul Preaches to the Gentile World

In summary then, we can see how the Book of Acts documents the Church’s progressive understanding of her mission. Under the direction of the Holy Spirit, it began with its birth in Jerusalem on the day of Pentecost. The Church slowly broadened her reach to include the hated Samaritans and the Gentile household of Cornelius.

Later, the apostle Paul launched the message of justification by faith from the “mother of all Gentile churches,” in Syrian Antioch.
From there he took the good news to other parts of the un-evangelized Gentile Roman world.

The Book of Acts is testimony to the miraculous growth of the Church, and fulfills Christ’s command that she bear witness “…both in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and unto the uttermost part of the earth”
(Acts 1:8 NIV).

Related

1. Bible Study: Romans Road to Salvation. 7 Powerful Verses for Witnessing
2. Bible Study: The Apostle Paul. Ultimate Family Man
3. Most of the information above comes from New Testament Survey by Merril C. Tenney. For further study, I highly recommend this book.

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Saturday, November 27, 2010

The Jewish Feast of Hanukkah

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A Celebration of Victory & Light
December 1-9, 2010

"Mai Hanukkah? What is Hanukkah?" ask the rabbis in the Talmud.

Most of us know something about this Jewish celebration with its branched candelabra, eight days of gift-giving, dreidel spinning, and latkes. Yet, because of its proximity to Christmas,
what's really going on in Jewish homes during the month of December is generally a mystery to believing Christians.
The overwhelming sweep of our joyous seasonal revelling tends to eclipse our awareness of this Jewish winter festival.

A Miraculous Military Victory


In The Jewish Holidays, Jewish author Michael Strassfeld says he thinks it’s strange that even the rabbis needed to question Hanukkah’s meaning. He suggests that perhaps it’s because Hanukkah actually commemorates two miraculous events. Not listed among the seven annual festivals commanded by God in Leviticus, this Feast of Dedication was ordained by sages during the intertestamental period to celebrate and publicize the miraculous victory of the Maccabean revolt over Seleucid (Syrian) Hellenizers.

Over a century earlier, Alexander the Great’s conquests of Syria, Egypt, and Palestine, had introduced a secular Hellenistic worldview to the region which threatened to eradicate the customs, semitic language, and Torah-based ethics of the Jews. As recorded in the Apocryphal book of Maccabees, pious Judah Maccabee ("the Hammer") led his men in a brave victory against the mighty Syrian armies using clever strategies and guerrilla tactics.

Also known as the "Festival of Lights" Hanukkah’s purpose is also to remember the rededication of the Second Temple on Kislev 25 in 165 BC after its defilement by Seleucid tyrant Antiochus Epiphanes ("the Madman"). Among other atrocities, Antiochus Epiphanes persecuted the Jews by erecting an idol of Zeus in the Temple and by prohibiting the study of the Torah. He also appointed his own Hellenistic "High Priest" who defiled the scrolls of the Scriptures and desecrated the holy altar by sacrificing pigs, an unclean non-kosher animal.

A Miracle of Light

According to later Talmudic tradition, after the Temple had been cleansed, the Jewish priests only found a single cruse of consecrated olive oil—enough to keep the seven-branched golden lampstand kindled for one day. The Talmud tells the legendary story of God’s miraculous provision of oil which kept eternal light in the Temple burning brightly for eight days until a new supply could be ritually purified. Modern-day observance of the holiday features the lighting of a special Hanukkah menorah with eight branches (plus a helper candle or shamash) lighting one new candle each night.


Jesus Christ is the Tree of Life

Although the verses are sometimes overlooked, John’s Gospel tells us that Jesus was at the Temple during Hanukkah, or the Feast of Dedication. "Then came the Feast of Dedication at Jerusalem. It was winter, and Jesus was in the temple area walking in Solomon's Colonnade" (
Jn 10:22-24).

During that first-century Hanukkah celebration, Jesus told his listeners that the powerful works he was performing witnessed to his claim to be the long-awaited Mashiach (
Jn 10:37-38). His miracles and his holy character clearly demonstrated that he was the Anointed Son of God. Claiming to be the Light of the world for both Jews and Gentiles, Jesus also promised that whoever followed Him would not have everlasting death and darkness, but the Light of eternal Life (Jn 8:12).

Hanukkah & the Return of Christ

Bible scholars argue that several centuries before Jesus’ birth, Daniel prophesied about the events that took place in 167 BC involving the Jewish persecutor, Antiochus Epiphanes
(Dan 8:9-14). Other scholars who study biblical end time events (eschatology) believe that many elements of the Hanukkah story will parallel the events described in Revelation.

Revelation speaks specifically about the persecution by the state toward believers prior to the Second Coming of Christ (parousia). The Feast of Dedication is a reminder that Christians must courageously remain faithful to God in the face of such persecution. Hanukkah is also a reminder that God is faithful, and he delivers his people not only from the oppression of Antiochus Epiphanes, but from the Antichrist himself.

Some interpreters also believe that a future Third Temple will be defiled by the Antichrist, and then cleansed and rededicated on the twenty-fifth day of Kislev in preparation for Jesus millennial reign on earth (
Dan 12:11-12).

For Kids: How to Play Dreidel

Jewish children love to sing and play games at Hanukkah. The rules for the most popular game, "spinning the dreidel" are very simple. On each side of a small four-sided top are the Hebrew letters, Nun, Gimmel, Hey, or Shin. When read together the dreidel’s letters mean, "A great miracle happened there."

"Each player must put something into the pot—perhaps a penny or a couple of nuts. Then the players take turns spinning the top. If Nun comes up, nothing happens. For Gimmel, the player gets the whole pot. For Hey, the player takes half the pot. For shin, the player has to share, or add to the pot."—Hebrew For Christians

I’m indebted to
Hebrew For Christians and Got Questions.org for most of the preceding information.

Related Resource: I strongly recommend The Feasts of the Lord. This excellent book compares OT shadows with NT realities to help Christians understand the fulfillment of the Feasts through Christ and His Church.

Photos: Skyco (Flickr), Jews For Jesus (Hanukkah e-cards)

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Thursday, November 25, 2010

Book Giveaway Winner

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A warm thank you to those who entered my Thanksgiving Giveaway for Diane Moody's new book, Confessions of a Prayer Slacker. This is the kind of inspiration every busy Mom needs—including me!

A former pastor's wife, the author has shared her personal prayer journey with humor and transparency. Admitting she's a "slacker" herself, Diane gives heartfelt advice and motivation to help every woman reach her prayer-life goals.

The random winner of this book is Sherry at Lamp Unto My Feet. Congratulations, my friend! Your book will be on its way to you very soon.


Christmas Apron Giveaway

Susannah Wesley found the strength to homeschool ten children—and accomplish a great deal more—while praying silently beneath her humble kitchen apron. When daily tensions began to rise, she simply flipped her apron over her head and sought the Lord’s direction.

In honor of Susannah, you're invited to enter my Christmas Hostess APRON GIVEAWAY at my hospitality site Susannah's {Kitchen}. A $30.00 value.

Hurry! Giveaway closes on Cyber Monday, Nov. 29 2010 at midnight PST.

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Tuesday, November 23, 2010

Happy (U.S.) Thanksgiving!

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Psalm 100

Make a joyful noise unto the LORD, all ye lands.
Serve the LORD with gladness: come before his presence with singing.
Know ye that the LORD he is God: it is he that hath made us, and not we ourselves; we are his people, and the sheep of his pasture.
Enter into his gates with thanksgiving, and into his courts with praise: be thankful unto him, and bless his name.
For the LORD is good; his mercy is everlasting; and his truth endureth to all generations.

Related: 13 Ways to Celebrate U.S. Thanksgiving and What Should be the Focus of Christians on Thanksgiving?


Photos: LawrenceOP (Flickr) & James B Carrier (Sunset)
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Sunday, November 21, 2010

Bible Prophecy: Foretelling & Forthtelling

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Old & New Testament Examples

Like two wings of a dove, biblical prophecy contains twin characteristics which are designed to act in harmony with one another.

The first, foretelling, predicts the future by announcing the will of God and his plans for his people. Foretelling calls the faithful cooperate with God’s holy intentions through prayer, patience, and faithful obedience.

The second, forthtelling applies to the present circumstances. Forthtelling calls God’s people to repentance and draws them back to the covenant promises and lessons of old. The Old Testament the prophets frequently served as social and political reformers. “Prophetic prognostication was not mere foretelling to appeal to the idle curiosity…

The genius of Old Testament prophecy was rather, a prediction of the future arising from the conditions of the present and was inseparably connected with the profoundly religious and spiritual message the prophet was called to proclaim to his own generation.”
—Unger's Bible Dictionary


Pesher: This is That

The authors of the New Testament also applied both the foretelling and forthtelling aspects of prophecy in their writings. For example, using the standard rabbinic method of Scripture interpretation known as pesher and summarized with the phrase “this is that,” Peter appealed to the prophecy of Joel (Acts 2:16-17). Similarly, Paul appealed to one of the Psalms (Eph 4:8-10). In both cases, Peter and Paul were forthtelling by calling their listeners to apply the lessons of Israel’s past to their first century circumstances.

The Gospel of Matthew uses similar technique. Written for a Jewish audience, the Evangelist presents over sixty explicit Old Testament quotations. These references develop the unmistakable portrait of Jesus as the powerful “lion of the tribe of Judah,” the promised Mashiach foretold in the Scriptures.

Like Peter and Paul, Matthew develops his argument using the “this is that” interpretive technique. For instance, compare Matthew 2:6 with
Micah 5:2
. Matthew uses additional prophetic patterns to develop his Gospel argument including “this completes that” (Matt 2:15; Hos 11:1) and “this is like that” (Matt 2:17-18; Jer 31:15). In Matthew 2:23, the Evangelist also uses allusion (or word play) to suggest the notion that Jesus is “the branch” spoken of Isaiah 11:1.

The authors of the New Testament also employed the foretelling aspect of prophetic fulfillment. Using the vehicle of apocalypse, John’s Book of Revelation is the most detailed New Testament example of prophecy which predicts the Judgment and final consummation of history.

Prophecy: Near & Far

Christ’s shorter teaching on the end times in his Olivet Discourse (Mark 13) illustrates another aspect of biblical prophecy: near and far. From this passage, it is clear that Jesus was making a prophetic prediction of far off events (the Day of the Lord) which would be mimicked by nearer catastrophic events (Jerusalem’s Fall in 70 A.D.). The precise time period between the two events was hidden or unknown.

This dual pattern of prophetic foretelling occurs elsewhere in Scripture. Although all of the specific details are usually not given in straightforward language, God intends the foreknowledge of significant events to be comforting to believers and to motivate unbelievers to repentance. Tragically, just as the nation of Israel failed to recognize the first appearance of the promised Messiah, most people do not recognize the biblical patterns as prophesied events are unfolding.

In summary, prophetic fulfillment is more that a prediction of future events. Both forthtelling and foretelling belong to the Spirit’s vocabulary of biblical prophecy. Where the former looks to the past, the latter hastens the future. Like two wings of a dove, both aspects of prophetic fulfillment are applicable in the present time.

I'm indebted to my theological study at Northwest University for the information contained in this post.

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Thursday, November 18, 2010

Book Giveaway: "Confessions of a Prayer Slacker"

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Susannah Sets the Standard

Prayer is certainly a universal need. As Christian women, we love it! Yet, we don’t always discipline ourselves to spend the concentrated time we know we should. We feel especially guilty when our friends are facing a crisis, and they call asking for prayer.

How do we squeeze out more time for meaningful time with God when Mt. Laundry is waiting, dinner is boiling over, and the children are playing at our feet? History tells us that a pastor's wife, Susannah Wesley, solved the universal prayer problem while tending to her pots and pans.

Mother to the famous evangelists John and Charles Wesley, Susannah found the strength to homeschool ten children—and accomplish a great deal more—while praying silently beneath her humble kitchen apron. When daily tensions began to rise, she simply flipped her apron over her head and sought the Lord’s direction. (Read more here…)

A Multi-Tasking Mama

Susannah makes it sound so easy doesn’t she? Now, if you don’t think Mrs. Wesley’s method will work for you, don't worry. Personally, I’m not a multi-tasker, and I don’t know very many modern Moms who can juggle peeling potatoes, precious little people, and serious prayer all at the same time.

I’m delighted to introduce a new book, Confessions of a Prayer Slacker by Diane Moody. Released this past August (Journey Press) this book promises to offer some real solutions to every Mom’s prayer dilemma. Don't you love the title? I know each and every one of us can admit to being “prayer slackers” at one time or another.

Thanksgiving Giveaway

If you would like enter my drawing for a copy of this book, just type “Confessions” in the comment box. The winner will be announced the day after (U.S.) Thanksgiving, on Friday Nov. 26, 2010.

By the way, if you’re a long-time reader of Chrysalis, you might remember a 2007 post about the accomplished Mrs. Wesley entitled, "Spotlight on Mom: Susannah Wesley." I’m honored that the author has quoted and footnoted a portion of that original article in Confessions of a Prayer Slacker. Thank you so much for your support, Diane!

Vintage Aprons at Susannah's {Kitchen}

Today, you’re invited to stop by my i-store, Susannah’s {Kitchen}. Inspired by that legendary praying cook, you’ll notice a Christian ambiance not present in many kitchen shops.

Be sure to take a look at the holiday hostess aprons, and discover some new recipes for Thanksgiving and Christmas. You'll find 30 Top Kitchen Gadgets, and lots of other gift ideas too. See you there!



Top Photo by Amydeanne at The 160 Acre Woods

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Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Architecture: National Cathedral (Washington, D.C.)

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A True Mega-Church

"The arts are the John the Baptist of the heart, preparing the affections for Christ."—Jacques Maritain

Maybe you've had the privilege of stepping inside the National Cathedral (USA). We thoroughly enjoyed our tour the summer our daughter taught marine biology aboard a tallship on Chesapeake Bay. We're planning go back again this Christmas, and we can't wait!

Related: A Beautiful Mess' Wordless Wednesday, Finding Joy's Lovely Photo Wednesday, SuperMom's Wordish Wednesday & Our Homeschool Reviews' Wordless Wednesday.

Photos: (1, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9) Laura Padgett (2) ~MVI~ (3) seminarianvoitus (Flickr)



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Sunday, November 14, 2010

Spiritual Growth: Admitting our Fears ...

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And Walking in Faith

My bloggy friend, Barbara H. at Stray Thoughts hosts a terrific meme every Monday called The Week in Words. And you’re invited! Barbara says, “If something you read this past week inspired you, caused you to laugh, cry, think, dream, or just resonated with you in some way, please share it with us, attributing it to its source, which can be a book, newspaper, blog, Facebook—anything that you read.”

Today I’d like to share a revealing quote from a pastor’s wife named Jani Ortlund. Her book, Fearlessly Feminine: Boldly Living God’s Plan for Womanhood was written in the late 90s. I believe Jani’s book is still relevant today—perhaps even more so.

In this interview at CBMW, "Q&A with Jani Ortlund," Jani says she wrote the book because she was concerned that women weren’t appreciating their God-given femininity. She also admits she wrote it for herself—because she tends to be a little bit fearful. She reminds us that true femininity calls us to be filled with faith. God calls us to be brave, courageous, strong, wise, and to embrace all that He has for us as women.

Faith Requires Patience

Perhaps you can relate to a few of the things Jani mentions the following quote
(from the interview mentioned above.) I certainly can!

“It's really strange. We fear being single and we fear being married. We fear infertility and then we fear child birth. We fear having a baby, but then fear them growing older into teenage years. Then we fear widowhood and then we fear living forever with this man. We fear financial insecurity, but we fear going out into the marketplace and earning money. Our lives are full of fear and I really think it eats at the core of our relationship to God.

We find it almost threatening to our femininity to trust God.
Think of Eve. The very first conversation there in the Garden of Eden where Satan sits on her shoulder and says, "Did God really say?" and he calls all of God's words into question and that's where our fears start: "Did God really say?" I can tell you that I trust in God, that He is sovereign, that He is all-powerful, but when I lay my head down on the pillow at night, if my last thought is, "How am I going to pay that bill tomorrow?" then I am not really trusting Him at the heart level. It's just a head-knowledge.

That's why the subtitle of my book is "Boldly embracing God's Plan for Us." It's more than just head knowledge. That fear starts in the heart, where we are wondering, Will I be protected? Will I be cared for? Can I make it? Is it worth it? What does it mean to be a woman? Can I truly take Scripture at face value and look at these real words, words like sin, redemption, submit, respect, obey, all of those words, can I look them square in the face and ask, "How do they apply to me as a woman?" and can I embrace that? Or do I say, "No, it's too scary."

Fear is a huge thing in the lives of women, because as women, we are often in vulnerable positions. It's the man who is to be the leader, even in the area of dating for younger women. We want to be called on the phone, we want to be asked out, we want to be pursued. In marriage, we want our husband to lead us. We don't want to take the leadership and have him stay at home and have him fix the meals and we go out to be the big earner. Generally speaking, we don't want to and I don't think the Bible holds that up as a worthy model.

So, in a way, we have to wait and be patient. It's in that waiting and patience for godly male leadership—for us to affirm and receive and nurture—it's in that waiting that we get kind of scared.”

Related

WFW: 1 Pet 3:5-6. Fearlessly Feminine
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Thursday, November 11, 2010

Humor: A Christian Eulogy

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Three Men and a Casket

Three friends from the local congregation were asked, "When you're in your casket, and friends and congregation members are mourning over you, what would you like them to say?"

Artie said, "I would like them to say I was a wonderful husband, a fine spiritual leader, and a great family man."

Merle commented, "I would like them to say I was a wonderful teacher and servant of God who made a huge difference in people’s lives."

Pete said, "I'd like them to say, 'Look! He's moving!'"

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Tuesday, November 9, 2010

Relationships: Now We're Talking!

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Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened.
(Luke 11:9-10 NIV)


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Reflection: The Art of Asking Questions

Let’s say it’s a Friday night during the holidays. You and your teens
(or tweens) are hanging out.
You’re all feeling pretty relaxed, and the talk is starting to flow. Maybe you’ve been trying to figure out how to take your family interactions to a deeper level.

Did you know you can take deepen your conversations by asking some great pre-planned questions? You can write them down beforehand, and pull them out of your mental hat as good opportunities arise. (For example, driving in the car together is golden.)

Keep the following pointers in mind before you dive in.

Begin in the shallow end of the pool and then wade deeper.
● Avoid questions that can be answered with a simple “yes” or “no.”
Ask for your child’s opinion about something. Few of us can resist the opportunity to pontificate!
Then move on to feeling questions e.g. “How did you feel about xyz…” instead of “What did you think about xyz…”
Be specific about your questions e.g. “What made you feel successful today?” instead of “How was your day?”
● Make use of the “pregnant pause.” Don’t be afraid to wait a few minutes in silence while your child thinks through his/her response.
Avoid asking “why?” questions. They can quickly move your conversation from a feeling level to a defensive thinking level.

15 Great Questions to Ask Your Kids

No longer in print, I’ve used a book called Now We’re Talking! for couples by Robert and Pamela Crosby. (Most recent version is called Conversation Starters For Couples). These books offes suggested questions in various categories including Favorites, Fun, Fond Memories, Family, Friends, Feelings, Finances, Failures, Fears, the Future, and Faith.

You can use these as prompts to make up your own questions. Or you can get The Ungame (a classic board game where everyone wins) and play it with your family. I noticed that DaySpring also offers sets of boxed cards called Conversation Starters for Teens, Families, Girlfriends, and Every Day.

To get you started, here are fifteen questions from The Ungame, “the world's most popular communication game.” They can be used with people of
any age. We love it!

1. What three things are most important in your life?

2. What would you like to be remembered for after you die?

3. Describe a happy family.

4. What activity do you engage in that involves all of you: your mind, body, and soul?

5. Give three words to describe how you feel right now.

6. In what ways do you act like a child?

7. Share a time when your feelings were hurt.

8. Thinking back, what can you identify as a turning point in your life?

9. What do you want to be doing in ten years.

10. Complete the statement: “One thing I missed during my childhood was…”

11. Complete the statement: “A new world opened up to me when…”

12. Share one of the happiest days of your life.

13. If you were told you only had one week to live—how would you spend it?

14. What makes you sad?

15. Share something that you fear.

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Sunday, November 7, 2010

Book Review: Dancing with the One You Love

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Living Out Submission in the Real World

Have you been watching “Dancing With the Stars?” The TV viewing public is thoroughly captivated when pop culture figures like Bristol Palin and Kate Gosselin compete on camera. (Pray for these two single Moms!) I happen to love dancing myself—aerobic dance, Jazzercize, swing and salsa—but my moves are nothing like the pros.

When I was contacted by Moody Publishers to review Cindy Easley’s
non-fiction book Dancing with the One You Love: Living Out Submission in the Real World
(2010), the dancer in me was immediately drawn to the title. I was also attracted to the message in the subtitle about submission in marriage. With endorsements by Dennis and Barbara Rainey (FamilyLife), I knew this book would be a winner.

Frog Legs for Dinner

You might be wondering—do we really need another book about this unpopular, almost taboo subject?

I think we do. As Christians, I think we need to read as much as we can on this topic. We’re bombarded with egalitarian feminist values all day long. We’re like the poor frog that was dropped into a kettle of water. When the cook turned up the flame, he didn’t even notice the rising temperature until it was too late to hop out.

The temperature of the liberal feminist worldview of marriage is rising around us—even among evangelicals—and many of us hardly notice at all. In fact, if you’re a Gen Y or Gen X-er, you might not remember a time when society applauded a woman’s voluntary choice to support her husband’s leadership and prioritize her home.

My Personal Reaction

Research reveals that many 21st-century wives are unhappy with the cultural status quo—but they don’t know how to experience the graceful waltz where both the husband and wife are in harmony, ‘dancing’ their God-given roles. Unless we regularly immerse ourselves in Scripture, and books like Dancing with the One You Love, it’s easy to fall in step with the unbiblical models of marriage so prevalent in our culture.

I was strengthened and encouraged by the message of this clear but compelling book.
It’s a quick read, easily completed in one evening. Cindy Easley interviews seven ordinary wives who are practicing biblical submission in some very demanding scenarios. These Christian women give us real-world role models to follow in the midst of our own challenging circumstances. If they can do it, then we can do it!

Seven Godly Role Models

I enjoyed reading Easley's stories of seven married women who are successfully moving in sync with:

• an unbelieving husband
• a husband with a chronic illness
• an alcoholic
• an often-absent military man
• her own powerful public role
• her high wage-earning ability
• African American cultural matriarchy

Easley’s final chapters include a word to men, and some relevant FAQs. I highly recommend Dancing with the One You Love to any wife who needs renew her trust in God’s Word and His complementary design for marriage. Each example will help you understand biblical submission, so you too can learn to waltz in glorious harmony with your partner in life.

About the Author

Cindy Easley was born in Houston, Texas. She is a nationally known speaker with the Weekend to Remember Marriage Conference. Cindy is married to Michael, former President of Moody Bible Institute and Teaching Pastor at Fellowship Bible Church in Nashville, Tennessee. They have three daughters and one son.

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Have this attitude in yourselves which was also in Christ Jesus, who, although He existed in the form of God, did not regard equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied Himself, taking the form of a bond-servant, and being made in the likeness of men. Being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross. (Phil 2:5-8 NASB)

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Thursday, November 4, 2010

5 Lively Links for Ladies

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Friday Fave Five

In my travels around the bloggahood recently, I came across a few articles that you might enjoy. Get yourself a cup of your favorite tea (Orange Spice? Earl Grey? Darjeeling?) and settle in with these...

1.Women Have Natural Evangelistic Hearts at Just Between Us Magazine
“Women are natural evangelists! What I mean is that women are quick to share with each other—with their mothers and sisters and daughters, with their best friends and even co-workers—what is deep in their hearts… So when women are filled with good news, excitement, or deep interest in something, such as what God is doing in their lives…”


2. "Wardrobe Workshop-on-the-Go" at Jill Savage’s Blog (Helping Moms Keep Their Hearts at Home)

Quote from Part 1:

“I believe most moms don’t wear enough accessories. I have a guideline called the 16 point accessory rule that will help you know if you have enough on. Check this out and determine your accessory IQ.”

Quote from Part 2:

“The goal in dressing is to look like an X even if you’re not. As long as you follow a few tips, no matter what your body type is, you can be balanced. When we dress so we appear balanced, attention is then brought to our face and not to the challenge areas of our body.”


3.Alpha Women and Beta Boys at Girls Gone Wise

Mary Kassian is a favorite (Canadian) author of mine. You'll enjoy her fascinating article about high earning working wives.

4.
How to be More Joyful: Get Thicker Skin at Life as Mom
“Now, I’m not saying to become like one of the aforementioned stoics, don’t get such thick skin that you miss out on emotions and compassion and even a little pain. Those things grow us and shape us and make us more into who God wants us to be. But many of us could stand to toughen up a little bit and make a conscious effort not to be upset by the things that don’t matter.”

5.The New NIV Debuts Nov. 1 at The Council on Biblical Manhood & Womanhood

Late in the summer of 2009, Zondervan, publishers of the New International Version (NIV) of the English Bible and its derivative, the "gender-neutral" Today's New International Version (TNIV), announced that it was producing an all-new updated version of the NIV.

Publishers said the new NIV was intended to correct the “mistake” it made in producing TNIV. Complementarian evangelical leaders were encouraged by the news and have awaited the new NIV’s arrival with expectancy. The Online version debuted Nov. 1, 2010 at Bible Gateway.com.

Related: You're invited to join Susanne at Living to Tell the Story for her very popular meme, Friday Fave Five.

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Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Family Life: Arts & Crafts for Kids

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Wordless Wednesday

What child can resist working in clay, paint, and paper mache? For instruction in these art mediums and many more, visit Art Projects for Kids.

Related: Meet the bloggers who participate in A Beautiful Mess' Wordless Wednesday, Finding Joy's Wordless Wednesday, and Live & Love... Out Loud's Wordless Wednesday.

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