
Growing Your Small Group
Don’t panic! You don't need to have the final answer to every single question. Nor do you want to presume that your careful preparation exempts you from any further lessons the Holy Spirit may want to teach from the passage.
Your job is simply to raise the questions, supply needed background information, and moderate the discussion. You want to be humble, open, and appreciative of all that the group members contribute in observation, interpretation, and application.
Group Dynamics
Frequently the same set of specific questions may provoke on one occasion a vigorous and profitable discussion, but at another time or with a different group the interaction never seems to “catch fire.”
Reasons for this difference include the caliber of questions; the sensitivity of the leader to the group; the relationships among group members; the relationships among the group members to the leader; the physical circumstances (sitting in a circle or in rigid rows); and the openness of individual group members to learn and participate.
The traffic patterns of a group are often initially a question-by-the-leader followed by group-member-answer in the early stages of a study. Certainly by the time the application is underway several group members should be speaking to the entire group or to each other without any contributions by the leader for several minutes.
Discussion Checklist
__Begin promptly and on time.
__Take five minutes for small talk and to let the group get acquainted.
__Learn people’s first names and use them often.
__Promote eye contact by sitting in a circle.
__Open with prayer. Ask and expect the Holy Spirit to teach the group.
__Have the group members read the passage aloud by paragraph.
__Add human interest by asking someone to retell the story in their own words.
__Ask each person to make one positive observation about the passage.
__Pace the study by discreetly keeping an eye on the time.
__Attempt to cover the assigned material.
__Move on to the next question as soon as understanding has been reached.
__Emphasize points for practical application and further study.
__Close with group prayer and on time.
Creative Leadership Tips
T or F? Dealing with Difficulties
1. Capitalize on controversy. Guide through it, rather than stifle it.
2. Use other passages of Scripture to help arrive at a resolution.
3. Avoid vigorous debate and fruitless controversy.
4. Agree to disagree if necessary.
5. Respect group members as individuals.
6. Accept what people think, not what they should think.
7. Never bluntly tell a group member that her answer is wrong.
8. Tactful questions about a member’s answer can help her clarify her thinking.
9. Gently restrain too-talkative members; address a question to another member by name.
10. Insist on modern phrasing rather than “Biblese.”
(Answers: All True)
Excerpts from Leading Bible Discussions by James F. Nyquist. InterVarsity Press.
For the word of God is living and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart. (Hebrews 4:12 NIV)
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10 Comments:
I'm hoping that God will direct in this sometime soon. Pastor asked me to wait for now.
Great tips! I've been leading small groups for awhile now, and love those last "true/false" hints. I love a good discussion, and I think simply following Jesus' model of showing grace and truth goes a long way in being a good leader!
In most of the small groups I've lead - we have a confidentiality clause so the women can share from their hearts without feeling like the whole world will hear of it.
I have been praying about starting something in my neighborhood- so many of us are stay at home moms... Thanks for all of this information :)
something that has worked thus far in the moms group i am leading is that i have coffee, tea, and water on the kitchen counters and upon arrival the moms can help themselves...this is kind of an ice breaker and as they make their way to the family room where we gather in a circle of sofas, chairs, etc. the small talk is starting to wind down and I can get the group to pray and we begin...my hubby and I used to wait until our group was done before doing the goodies but i am finding it works best BEFORE and this way, anyone uncomfortable with sharing has something in their hand, a refreshing drink, etc. and the atmosphere is a bit more casual. this was great..love all the tips! OH...i also, every week, remind the women that what we say in group STAYS in group...meaning no outside gossip comes in and what we share/prayer goes no further than the group. It helps women to feel "safe".
Great tips Emom! Some of them I need to brush up on since we're starting a new study out here this week!
Good advice...maybe for the future I will be doing this again.,,this time with more grey hair and hopefully more wisdom!!
Great tips. Elizabeth George includes something similar in the back of her study guides.
Visiting from GMG today :)
I'm still in the learning stage of leading small groups. I tend to fill the silence to much (at least this is what my dear husband says). These are great tips!
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