Sunday, August 29, 2010

Marriage: ABCs of Being a Helpmate


How to Support Your Husband's Call to Servant-Leadership

A. Admire his manly qualities
B. Bless him in the bedroom
C. Cook his favorite foods
D. Dress like a woman
E. Exercise for health and beauty
F. Forgive him for forgetting the small things
G. Give him lots of smiles
H. Heed his advice, accept to his solutions
I. Iron his clothes
K. Keep your house in order
L. Laugh at his jokes
M. Mother your children well
N. Nagging is out. Asking with confidence is in.
O. Open your mouth often to say, “Thank You”
P. Play outdoors together
Q. Quit trying to “improve” him
R. Respect his efforts to earn a living
S. Submit to his leadership
T. Trust that he has your best interests in mind
U. Understand his need to be needed
V. Vulnerably share your feelings
W. Walk and talk together, side-by-side
X. eXplain your needs for empathy and romance
Y. Your schedule should include sex
Z. HiZ ego is sensitive; tread with great care

In American football, there's a quarterback and a receiver. The same is true on the playing field of life called marriage. From the list above, can you tell me who is who?

This entry was inspired by a pastor's wife named Laura at Living by Faith.

Photos: wildphoton (Flickr)



Coming Up—Book Review: God Knows Your Love Language

What else would you add to this list?



10 Comments:

GlowinGirl said...

Quarterbacks always have the sensitive egos, so . . . ;)

Seriously, a great list. I tend to think of myself more as a cheerleader. I know the amount of encouragement I give really affects how my husband sees himself. If he is down, it's often because I'm not doing my job well!

Sandra said...

Love these. So many areas I can improve in....

Barbara H. said...

A great list, thank you!

Bobbi said...

The Quarterback is the team leader and must be followed for all the plays. And thanks GlowinGirl...I snorted my iced coffee...they have sensitive egos! HAHAHA!
Great list...gonna put it on my fridge for a while.

Janette@Janette's Sage said...

Great list...wonderful reminder...even after 30 years I still need to remember!
Thanks...oh, love the Iron his clothes...lets see, it has been probably 23 years since I did that...LOL
Cleaners for those dress shirts!

Joyfull said...

What a great list! Thanks for sharing this!

Mary Joy said...

How wonderful!!! I would say listen to him without interrupting him...it makes him feel respected. Greet him with a kiss whenever he returns home.

I love your list!!! Wonderful!!! I am going to share a link to this on my blog's facebook page! Thanks in advance! :-)

I love your style!--just started following your blog!

Heather said...

This was great!

Shelley said...

Great list - I would add "sing when he walks through the door" I have a fun silly welcome home song that I sing - and even if I drive him crazy I manage to get a smile : D

Faith said...

I LOVE this list....I may refer my readers back to this post if that's ok! Would I add anything? just one thing comes to mind because it is something I have to remember to do daily as it really aids my hubby: Speak his Love Language! (assuming one knows it!). Bless you...this was great!

 

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