Tuesday, April 7, 2009

Word-Filled-Wednesday: Genesis 3:23



This at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called Woman (Ishsha), because she was taken out of Man (Ish). (Genesis 2:23 ESV)


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Reflection: Man & Woman Defined

When Adam first laid his eyes on Eve, he broke into the exuberant, spontaneous poem above. But what do the original Hebrew words ish and ishsha really mean? Let's listen to Mary Kassian. She's an award winning author, an internationally renowned speaker, and distinguished professor of Women's Studies at Southern Baptist Seminary:

"The first man called himself ‘Ish’ and the woman ‘Ishsha.’ This appears to be an extremely clever and profound play on words. The sound of these two Hebrew words is nearly identical—Ishsha merely adds a feminine ending—but the two words have a complementary meaning. Ish comes from the root meaning ‘strength’ while Ishsha comes from the root meaning ‘soft.’

The implication becomes clearer when we observe the biblical meaning of a man’s ‘strength.’ Strength refers to a man’s manhood—his potency, virility, and procreative power (Ps. 105:36; Prov. 31:3; Gen. 49:3). By contrast, a woman’s ‘softness’ has to do with her pregnability, penetrability, and vulnerability (in a very positive sense). One commentator has suggested English equivalents of ‘Piercer’ and ‘Pierced One.’
According to Scripture, it’s woman’s softness, her ability to receive, respond, and relate—that is her greatest strength.
The bodies of male and female reflect this idea. A man’s body is built to move toward the woman. A woman’s body is built to receive the man. But the pattern goes beyond the mere physical difference between men and women to encompass the totality of their essence: The man was created to joyfully and actively initiate and give. The woman was created to joyfully and actively respond and receive. The woman is the ‘soft’ one—the receiver, responder, and relater. The man is the ‘strong’ one with greater capacity to initiate, protect and provide. Each is a perfect counterpart to the other.

The Lord created male and female as an object lesson—a parable as it were—of a profound spiritual reality: The relationship between Christ the husband and the Church, His Bride. Men are to reflect the strength, love and self-sacrifice of Christ. Women are to reflect the character, responsiveness, grace and beauty of the Bride He redeemed.

In the past few years, the Hollywood portrayal of the ideal woman is one who is aggressive and tough—both physically and sexually. This is a far cry from what woman was created to be. According to Scripture, it’s woman’s softness, her ability to receive, respond, and relate—that is her greatest strength."

This excerpt has been quoted from Mary Kassian’s articleSteel Magnolia published on her website,
Girls Gone Wise: A Quiet Counter Revolution
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Do you think receptivity and responsiveness are strengths?

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22 Comments:

Denise said...

Thanks for sharing.

Mariposa said...

Very interesting, thanks for sharing!

Tami Boesiger said...

Wow, e-Mom, those pictures woke me up in a hurry this morning!

Receptivity and responsiveness absolutely are strengths. Isn't that what everyone craves--someone to respond to them? God has given us a great capacity to love in these qualities.

Persuaded said...

i think it often takes more strength to be the responder, because then we must control our own selves! waiting, refraining from acting is often requires much more discipline than spontaneously acting out.
good questions!

Beth in NC said...

That is interesting!

Happy WFW!
Beth

Tracy said...

As always...great thoughts on this WFW! Thanks for sharing! Happy Easter week to you, sweet one!

Mary Moss said...

Thank you for this wonderful post. I very much appreciated your defining and clarifying the biblical context of man and woman, our roles and our purposes in God's plan.

Susan said...

Now this was really interesting!!

According to Scripture, it’s woman’s softness, her ability to receive, respond, and relate - that is her greatest strength.

In our weakness we are truly made STRONG!!

Thanks, I'm going to pass this one on.

Have a blessed day E-mom♥

Angela said...

What wonderful teaching..thank you

Toia said...

This is very interesting. I never look at it that way. Thanks so much for sharing God's word and enlightening me on some things.

Blessings to you!!

Bogie said...

Thanks for sharing. Blessings to you!

Laurie Ann said...

Very interesting! I'm glad you shared this information with us. I'm so glad God divinely designed us the way He has. Happy WFW!

Jennifer said...

Wow...the pictures got my attention before the post did! LOL! I loved this view of man & woman...husband & wife. It is hard to be that soft wife when your personality is very strong but it can be done with self control and discipline.

Thanks for sharing...I enjoyed it.

Amydeanne said...

interesting and challenging emom! how i long to be that way!

happy Easter my friend!

Faith said...

To answer your ?. ABSOLUTELY! those are indeed strengths. great article!

Saleslady371 said...

Yes, receptivity & responsiveness are strengths. Why? Because we women are strong and capable, however, we yield to our man and become one with him. It takes a heap of strength to do that!

Thank you for leaving such a beautiful comment on my blog. I'm so glad to find you. I love it here. I'm coming back!

Roo said...

:) good post emom.
and yes...i do think they are strengths.

e-Mom said...

Denise: You're welcome.

Mariposa: Any time. :~D

Tami: Lol, wide awake in a hurry, eh? This is brilliant, my friend: Isn't that what everyone craves--someone to respond to them? Wow. Well said.

Persuaded: I agree, it takes more strength to be the responder. Yes, self-control is so key. :~D

Beth: Thanks for commenting.

Tracy: And Happy Easter to you too, sweet one. :~D

Mary: Amen! Happy to be of service to you. :~D

Susan: I love the way you put this: In our weakness we are truly made STRONG!! Amen, sister!

Angela: You're welcome.

Toia: I'm glad you enjoyed this post. :~D

Bogie: Blessings back to you!

Laurie Ann: I'm so glad God divinely designed us the way He has. I am too. Happy WFW!

Jennifer: Lol, I tried to find some discreet pictures of Adam and Eve... not an easy task.
You're right, self-control and discipline are needed in wives with strong personalities.

Amydeanne: I long to be that way too! Happy Easter back to you. :~D

Faith: Thanks, Faith. Glad you enjoyed it. :~D

Saleslady371: Amen to this: Because we women are strong and capable, however, we yield to our man and become one with him. It takes a heap of strength to do that!

Roo: Thanks for commenting my sweet friend. Shalom!

A Stone Gatherer said...

I love that article! And yes I think they are strengths!

e-Mom said...

Kim: Amen. I agree! :~D

Buffy said...

I certainly do think they're strengths.

I too celebrate the natural differences between the sexes, a world with one sex would be very boring!

I also deplore the way that Hollywood and the media generally feel that all heroines must be action-centred and aggressive. How about changing the record occasionally?

BTW I like the way your Eve is not skinny, another modern misrepresentation of women.

e-Mom said...

Buffy: Lol, thanks for this: BTW I like the way your Eve is not skinny, another modern misrepresentation of women.

 

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