Sunday, March 23, 2008

Susannah Wesley in the Spotlight

"I am content to fill a little space if God be glorified."
—Susannah Wesley

NOTE: For Chic Vintage Aprons, recipes, and top kitchen gadgets visit
Susannah's {Kitchen}.


Top 10 Reasons to Study Her Life

1. Susannah was a preacher’s kid.

"Born on January 20, 1669, as the daughter of a London pastor and the youngest of 25 children, Susanna Annesley was quite familiar with both a clergyman’s household and large families… Susanna was educated at home, with her lessons supplemented by the intellectual atmosphere of her father’s many scholarly visitors. One of these was the son of a Dissenting minister, Samuel Wesley, then a student."

2. Susannah was married to a pastor.

"Samuel Wesley was ordained in 1689 and he and Susanna, who had also decided to affiliate with the Anglican Church, were married soon after when she was 20 and he was 28… Following his ordination and marriage, Samuel served other parishes before 1696 when he came to Epworth in the North Lincolnshire area, the church he would serve most of his life."

3. Susannah gave birth to 19 babies.

"During this time Susanna had had seven children in those seven years, three of whom died. More children were born in the next few years, but many did not survive… Ten of Susanna’s eventual nineteen children lived to maturity, making for a large family to raise and educate while she carried out all her other household responsibilities. Yet Susanna accomplished it well and often with only just [one] servant.

One scholar described the Wesley children as 'a cluster of bright, vehement, argumentative boys and girls, living by a clean and high code, and on the plainest fare; but drilled to soft tones, to pretty formal courtesies; with learning as an ideal, duty as an atmosphere and fear of God as law.'"

4. Susannah was a good money manager.

"The Epworth area was primarily rural in economy and in mindset, and for Samuel as a city minded scholar it proved difficult. He was a rigid and moralistic pastor and some parishioners responded with occasional hostility. Samuel also lacked business sense so it was left up to Susanna to manage the household and business expenses – and all with no word of criticism for Samuel…"

5. Susannah had ‘tude.

"Susanna was a strong supporter of the Stuart King James who had been overthrown in 1688 and replaced by William, his Dutch son-in-law. In 1702 when in family prayers Samuel prayed for King William, Susanna refused to say 'Amen.' She was, as her son John described it later, 'inflexible', and Samuel was equally so.

'Sukey,' he told her as he left home. 'We must part for if we have two kings we must have two beds.' Susanna asserted that she would apologize if she was wrong but she felt to do so for expediency only would be a lie and thus a sin. Eventually after five months and the death of King William Samuel returned home and from their reconciliation was born John in 1703."

6. Susannah led her church home group.

"[While her husband was away] there were no afternoon church services, [so] Susanna began an evening family gathering where they sang psalms, prayed and Susanna read a short sermon from her husband’s library. It began with the family and the servants but soon word spread and others neighbors appeared, and soon there were too many for the parsonage."

7. Susannah was a homeschooling Mom.

"She spent six hours each day home schooling her children. One of her teaching methods was to write several manuals on Christian doctrine for her children. Her titles included, A Manual of Doctrine, An Exposition of the Apostle's Creed. A third was
An Exposition of the 10 Commandments.
Here are 16 Rules she laid down in her home."



8. Susannah knew her ten kids individually.

"She gave each child individual attention by purposely setting aside a regular time for each of them. In fact, she dedicated one hour a week to each child, which was no small task. She wanted to influence each one of them as an individual and make sure that each one knew the Lord and were growing in their faith. To do that she had to know them. To know them, she needed to invest the time. She reaped great rewards."

9. Susannah made time to pray.

Susannah Wesley prayed two hours a day. She organized her children so this could be accomplished. She had a system by which they would take care of each other, and this was the root of Methodism. (In the beginning, what distinguished Methodists was their system). John and Charles, as little boys, just watched their mom. If she couldn’t find a room to retreat to, they watched her flip her apron up over her head and pray.

10. Susannah was John and Charles Wesley's Mom.

"From her loving home came a son, John Wesley, who would experience a spiritual awakening and change the course of English history by initiating a nation-wide revival. Another of her sons, Charles, is remembered for his over 9,000 hymns that have brought pleasure to the Church for many years. In fact, it could be said that the Methodist movement had its very foundations formed in the home of Susannah Wesley. It was the courageous, tenacious faith of this Bible-believing woman that gave Christendom two of the most important figures of the 18th century."

Excerpts in points 1-6 are quoted from "Susanna Wesley: Mother of Methodism" by Anne Adams. Exerpts in points 7, 8, & 10 are quoted from "Amazing Moms." Note: This article is a Chrysalis repost.

Related Resources

1. Children’s Book. Ten Girls Who Made a Difference

2. Adult Biography. Susanna Wesley: Mother of John & Charles Wesley

3. For Chic Vintage Aprons, recipe sharing, and Top Kitchen Gadgets visit Susannah's {Kitchen} .

Photo Credits: Bitter Girl, headur, losiek, (Flickr) Google.




21 Comments:

Jan Parrish said...

I don't know how she prayed for two hours a day with ten children. What an amazing woman. :)

I wouldn't separate from my dh over politics. Thankfully, we agree on that issue.

Lori said...

What a wonderful woman! Now that is hard to follow.

Happy Belated Easter

Lori

Donetta said...

Good Morning. I have yet to read through about Sue but once I get the kids fed I can. I hope your weekend was wonderful. Cute apron I'm in.

Jana said...

She sounds like an amazing woman! I've been meaning to check out a biography of her, but haven't managed to yet.

re: my robot - I am totally serious! It really works, too!

the160acrewoods said...

I've read about her before. I keep thinking wow. I don't think I'm half the woman she is. It's always interesting to read about other women who go through the plight of motherhood.

and I would loveee that apron! it's adorable!

Vaughanville said...

She's been on my "biographies to read" list for a while. Maybe it's time.

Thank you.

Michele

Tammy said...

Oh, emom...I was transfixed by this story!
You are the first one I have visited since coming back from my blogging break, and I hung on every word just now!
I have that book, "10 girls who made a difference" which I bought awhile back for my girls but we haven't read it yet. Now I can't wait!

I learned so much about an incredible woman that I didn't know anything about before....thank you!
(And I would love to win that apron!) :)

Sheila said...

Susannah Wesley's story is amazing. What strikes me overall, since I have the advantage of looking back in history, is the powerful effect she had on not only her own children, but a nation, and the world, because of her dedication to training her children. She must have struggled to believe through all her hardships that the seeds she was planting in her kids were going to produce a great harvest, but now she knows. And I can look at her life as an encouragement to keep believing that in teaching and training, and praying for...pouring out my life in to my two, God will have His harvest!

Once again, great post! And I love the apron!
Sheila

Faith said...

I am always amazed at the life of Susannah Wesley!

I don't care for aprons but it sure is cute!

See you in a couple of weeks!

Jennifer in OR said...

What a woman! So inspiring, and speaking of her inspiration, I'm off to teach my children for six hours!!

Jennifer in OR said...

Oh, and I must have that apron!

Mama Kraus said...

I always have a vivid picture in my mind of this incredible woman with her apron over her head while she prayed....To think that all it took was an apron to get her children to leave her be while she spent time with God! I think she is an amazing role model to teach young women about and maybe through that teaching her legacy will live on in the generations to come. Oh to be a Proverbs 31 woman as she was...i am striving everyday to achieve that. The beauty is not in the attainment of it but the blessings in the mistakes that we make while on the way.

Susan said...

Hi E-mom,

Hope your Easter was memorable! What a nice way to start the week, reading about one of my ALL time favorite heros! (Hmmm, I forget to list her in my 100th post, she is truly a woman who continues to inspire me.)

Learned a few new facts today...Thanks! As always you are such a blessing. You feed us all very well.

Now, we need to use all this precious manna you bless us with.

Have a great day♥

Robyn said...

I've heard a little about Susannah Wesley over the years but this is the most comprehensive stuff I've read. As a pastor's wife and mother of two little boys, it inspires me and challenges me at the same time. I'm going to do more research on her. You've really made me want more!!

Thanks for a great post, as always!!

Angela @ Refresh My Soul Blog said...

I LOVE her list of rules. I may implement some of my own. I really like how she made it a priority to subdue the flesh and if they didn't learn it as children it made matters far harder on them as grown ups.
Much love,
Angela

Roo said...

wow.
that's all that i can say.
wow.
wow.
wow.
wow.
i love this woman. can't wait to meet her oneday.

Jessie said...

I always enjoy hearing about Susannah Wesley. I had never heard her rules before. They are good. We follow several ourselves. I noticed some that I wish we had followed early on. It would have saved us some later pain in child rearing.

e-Mom said...

Jan, Lori, Donetta, Jana, Amydeanne, Vaughanville, Tammy, Sheila, Faith, Jennifer, Mama Kraus, Susan, Robyn, Angela, Roo, & Jessie: I'm so glad you enjoyed this post--and thanks for voting! I'll announce the winner of Susanna's apron giveaway the next time we meet for Marriage Monday.

Hugs,
e-Mom

Connie Marie said...

Just having time to read blogs. My Mom is back with me and I like to get caught up with her stories and Bible sharing. We are caught up and now I feel like I can stop by blogs for a bit.

This woman was amazing. My Mom raised ten children too. The raising does not stop when they go out of the home does it? What a blessing it must have been to her to have John and Charles, the ones we hear about, but I bet the rest of them were big blessings too.

I felt a bit of an ugly something in my heart towards her husband leaving her over a King. She was good to give him another baby when he returned!!!!!

MEN! bleah... but then I guess I am not being quite Proverbs 31-ish, am I? ha

e-Mom said...

Connie Marie: You make me laugh out loud!!!

First, you enjoy that mother of yours while she's still with us. The fact that she's still "breathing" after raising 10 astounds me. :~D

I can't imagine a marriage breaking up over politics either, but then again, it sounds like those two were both political animals. She was probably as stubborn as he!

Yes, John and Charles must have been delightful, and the rest of Susannah's brood too. I look forward to meeting all of them in heaven. ♥

Janette@Janette's Sage said...

I am glad I saw this today...she is on my biography list to read this summer!
I have always enjoyed hearing about her life through the years and wanted to read a complete biography on her.
Thanks

 

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